We put things off because we're afraid. Afraid of failure, afraid of rejection and the consequences behind it. And sometimes the fear comes from having to make the decision itself. What if you’re wrong, what if you're making a mistake you cannot undo ? And this you know for sure that if you take a step further, you're gonna lose everything. So you sit around waiting for things to get better, even when you know it never will.

When we are more willing to open our hearts for that one person whom you can't have rather than for someone new, it hurts.